Three for the Memories Coming Back Next Month!
Dec. 28th, 2025 05:30 pm
3 for the Memories' 2025 session will be open for posts on January 3, 2026 and will run for 3 weeks until January 24. Event participation is as follows:
1) Three photos only per person during each annual session. Members are encouraged to discuss the reason for their choices.
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3) All three photos should be in the same post. Cut tags should be placed after the first photo.
3 for the Memories is not a competition, and entries are not being judged. Rather, participants are encouraged to share photos they took in 2025 that they find meaningful in some way or which represent how they experienced the year.
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School : BtVS : icons : SHS
Dec. 28th, 2025 05:49 pmFandom: Buffy the Vampire Slayer
Rating: G
Content notes: None apply
Summary: icons of Sunnydale High School
( SHS )
Christmas Update
Dec. 29th, 2025 07:19 amI have finally worked out how to pav in this oven. Turn the heat waaaaaaaaay down to the lowest setting, then leave it for a couple of hours. Literally, a couple of hours.
I ended up doing it on Christmas morning and it worked beautifully!
( Christmas and Boxing Day )
Saturday I took entirely off, and Sunday I did some stuff around the house. The temps have calmed down a lot - to the point where I wasn't sleeping through the night unless I put an extra quilt on the bed - and so I could do some work I've been putting off for a while.
( of course it happens this week )
I should probably have some breakfast.
MEDIA POST: the real treasure was the government funded hockey yaoi we watched along the way
Dec. 28th, 2025 01:59 pmI had read the books but ages ago and they didn't really stick with me. I'm sure they're fine (I've heard the quality is kind of uneven and goes down with later books; I only ever read the first two and preferred the second one), but the show was phenomenal. Just getting gay hockey softcore on tv in 2025 feels important and hopeful. The fact that it was also really good and even the straight hockey bro podcasts (which...are now videos? But we still call them podcasts? I don't understand) are obsessed with it is just a bonus. Both What Chaos and Empty Netters are getting a lot of attention for their reactions; I haven't watched any of them all the way through but have seen cute clips on tumblr. It's charming to watch them slowly come to realize the vast diversity of experiences in the world. Like seeing kindergartners on a fieldtrip to an interactive museum.
It's also been delightful to watch Connor and Hudson (...mostly Hudson) just go completely off the rails in all the media appearances they've been making since the show took off. Like, just the most unhinged freaks who were completely made for each other and also this show. I adore them. I am pleased to report that the RPF develops apace.
Also Cesare Borgia was there? It's frankly a hate crime to make François Arnaud play an American hockey player, but he does it very well and is very handsome indeed. Samantha was like "he looks like a young Shea Weber." He looks like a Shea Weber who hasn't spent the last 25 years in a meat grinder, is what he looks like, because those men are the same age. I enjoyed his response to the guy (not sure who he is or why his opinion mattered) who was like "this is not what gay sex looks like" by being like "what the fuck does gay sex look like?" and then doubling down when Vulture interviewed him about it like "okay but they don't act gay though" and he was like "why are you watching a show about closeted hockey players if you don't think there's room for that diversity of experience." He and Jacob Tierney have both also been on point in response to any bullshit about whether Connor or Hudson are gay and why won't they come out, etc. They were both waiting tables up until like the week before filming started! Give them some space! Mind your business! Also it's illegal in Canada to ask people that during a job interview (thank u, Jacob).
I enjoy the memes about how this is Canadian government funded hockey yaoi (due to the tax incentives in Ontario and Québec and the Canadian Media fund) as long as they don't go so hard they tip over into "tee hee! what a quaint and charming country with none of the problems experienced by real countries!" which tumblr loves to do. Mostly it's been okay; they got it out of their systems after the pilot I guess.
The show itself, IDK, you should go watch it. It's lit so you can see what happens! There's lots of kissing and face touching and tit grabbing and suggestive angles and artfully raised thighs doing a lot of penis-hiding work. The intimacy is scorching, and in all the interviews they talk about how much that's down to the intimacy coordinator and everything being tightly choreographed, which I think is super cool. There's loadbearing buttsex and some light BDSM. The acting is good, don't listen to what people say about Hudson's acting, he watched Sidney Crosby do media and he made his choices on purpose. The haters simply don't understand the depth of his art.
Like the source material, sometimes it tips over into cringe a little bit ("I kind of prefer being the hole," my man did not say that, he can't even say that he's gay out loud yet) and obviously nothing where they have a Texas boy being a Russian is going to be perfect, but overall, I think it sticks the landing. Apparently the Texas boy loves linguistics and did do a good job learning Russian vowels. At one point he has like a five minute monologue in Russian, which is more than I personally could do in French which I speak like every day, so good for him.
The last episode really pulls out all the stops. Like, you've had this really compelling and (relatively) well paced love story paying out and they find the space to have some really compelling parent-child dynamics and exploration amidst the love story concluding. they do such a good job showing how this relationship has blossomed and what it can look like outside the confines of a hotel room, and how it's new but still comfortable. ALSO! It is beautifully lit! I love being able to see shit! I like that the ending isn't perfect--they aren't coming out, the best they can do is hopefully play for teams that are two hours apart, there's all the agonizing Explaining to the parents who don't know exactly what to say--and that it just ends with them driving down the road. Very apt visual metaphor. Based on what I've heard about subsequent books, I kind of hope JT goes rogue in season two, but we'll see.
I've read a little fic and I've got the kink meme open in a tab, but I'm not super duper compelled by it although I've read one or two good ones. I think a lot of it is probably just life stuff; my focus isn't great, I'm preoccupied by pregnancy stuff, it's liminal spacemas so I'm on screens too much anyway. Go support the kinkmeme because there's fuck all spaces where we can be like "this is a place to be horny however we want, manage your own feelings about it" these days.
Anyway, delighted to see such good CanCon on my screen during an otherwise gloomy media landscape, recommend everybody to watch it.
Waiting Challenge: The Fantastic Journey: Fanfic: Unexpected Rescue
Dec. 28th, 2025 06:07 pmTitle: Unexpected Rescue
Fandom: The Fantastic Journey
Author:
Characters: Fred, Ben, Varian.
Rating: PG
Spoilers/Setting: Vortex.
Summary: Camden has had Fred and Ben locked in the cell behind his treasure room. There’s no way for them to escape, until a stranger shows up to rescue them.
Word Count: 850
Content Notes: Nada.
Written For: Challenge 501: Amnesty 83, using Challenge 346: Waiting.
Disclaimer: I don’t own The Fantastic Journey, or the characters. They belong to their creators.
Yuletide
Dec. 28th, 2025 02:33 pmIt was for Enigma, which I was excited enough about just for that, but it is also excellent - a really well-done layered look at Tom & Hester running into Wigram a few years post-canon. Plus, my recip turned up to leave a comment on my assignment, so Yuletide 2025 is a win! \o/ (Even more so, as that other Enigma ficlet I mentioned? The author replied to my comment to say that they'd watched the film because of my promo post, so double yay and bonus outside-of-Yule ficlets!)
After the End (1472 words) by Anonymous
Chapters: 1/1
Fandom: Enigma (2001)
Rating: General Audiences
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Characters: Tom Jericho, Hester Wallace, Wigram (Enigma 2001)
Additional Tags: Post-Canon
Summary: Summer 1949. An encounter in a Parisian park.
Daily Devotions from Lutheran Hour Ministries: 28 December 2025 (Advent Devotional)
Dec. 28th, 2025 08:22 amAnd at the end of eight days, when He was circumcised, He was called Jesus, the Name given by the angel before He was conceived in the womb. (Luke 2:21)
When Jesus was eight days old, it was time for Him to be named and circumcised. Every Jewish boy was circumcised as God commanded Abraham, to mark Him as someone who belonged to God and who lived under God’s Law.
Circumcision was a ceremony that happened at home, though we don’t know where Jesus and His parents were living at this point. I hope Joseph had found them somewhere more comfortable to stay—a house, perhaps, or even just a guest room with a relative! Certainly he was doing his best to keep both mother and Child well and happy.
But neither Joseph nor Mary could spare Jesus the pain that came with circumcision. This was God’s command, and it had to be done—even to God-in-the-flesh Himself, Jesus our Savior. And so Jesus felt His first pain since birth, and shed His first blood. What a welcome to the Savior who would save His people through a painful, bloody death!
But if circumcision reminds us of pain, it also reminds us that Jesus has joined Himself to us and all God’s people forever. He is on our side—the human side—and He bears the marks of it in His own body. Even now that He has risen from the dead, He continues to be ours, one of us. And where He goes we go—because Jesus has made us His own forever.
WE PRAY: Dear Jesus, thank You for accepting pain for me and joining Yourself to us forever. Amen.
Reflection Questions:
- Were you baptized as an infant?
- How are Baptism and circumcision similar? How are they different?
- Why do you think Jesus chose to go through all the same experiences we must go through, even the painful ones?
Advent Devotions were written by Dr. Kari Vo.
Sign Challenge: Babylon 5: Separate Pages
Dec. 28th, 2025 10:50 amTitle: Separate Pages
Fandom: Babylon 5
Author:
Characters: G’Kar, Londo.
Rating: PG
Word Count: 250
Spoilers/Setting: No Surrender, No Retreat.
Summary: G’kar considers Londo’s proposal.
Content Notes: None needed.
Written For: Challenge 501: Amnesty 83, using Challenge 472: Sign.
Disclaimer: I don’t own Babylon 5, or the characters. They belong to J. Michael Straczynski.
A/N: Double drabble and a half, 250 words.
It's a Trap!: Stargate Atlantis: Fanfiction:Echo of a Memory
Dec. 28th, 2025 08:34 amAuthor:
Fandom:Stargate Atlantis
Rating:Teen and up
Pairing:John/Carson;John/Rodney
Summary and warning:John is exploring a Wraith ship when he hears Carson calling to him. Mention of canonical character death.
Word Count:509
( Read here )
On the fanfiction front...
Dec. 27th, 2025 10:48 pmI'm not sure if I can pull it off or not, but I'm really leaning towards trying to get it posted on Monday. The very first fic that I posted online went up on 12/29/2000, so it seems kinda fitting to post #800 exactly 25 years later.
We'll see if I can pull it off? I have enough WIPs that I should be able to finish something that isn't for an exchange that I can go ahead and post publicly that day. Theoretically, at least.
Yuletide 2025 recs
Dec. 27th, 2025 08:15 pmTwo, Seven, Eight (1817 words) by Anonymous
Fandom: Possibly in Michigan (1983)
Characters: Sharon (Possibly in Michigan), Janice (Possibly in Michigan), Worldbuilding (Possibly in Michigan), Prince Charming (Possibly in Michigan), Original Characters
Additional Tags: Canon-Typical Violence, Cannibalism, Workplace Comedy, Documentation, Epistolary, the major character death is off-page but a guy getting killed and eaten is sure what happens in this movie
Summary: The Beachwood Place Mall is not a great work environment.
Other stories I've loved so far:
Madalena's Ballad of Vast Success (1264 words) by Anonymous
Fandom: Galavant (TV)
Characters: Madalena (Galavant), Brief ensemble Galavant cast appearance
Additional Tags: Character Study, Inspired by the song What Am I Feeling (Galavant), Original music composition, Post-Canon
Summary: Madalena stood on her balcony, in her castle perched high on a cliffside overlooking her vast and endless empire. "This is the best life has ever been. Everything I wanted is now mine... Yet sometimes it seems that there's something out there that eludes me, something I can neither buy nor take. But that's crazy! Who would dare deny me? Deceive or defy me? None at all! Well, almost none!"
Busman’s Holiday (1294 words) by Anonymous
Fandom: Knives Out (Movies)
Characters: Benoit Blanc (Knives Out), Phillip (Knives Out), Original Characters
Additional Tags: Epistolary, Murder Mystery, Archaeology, Benoit Blanc can’t leave well enough alone, Murder, Detectives
Summary: While on holiday in Crete, Benoit Blanc stumbles across a murder in a sleepy coastal village. He probably shouldn’t get involved — he is, after all, on holiday. Oh, who is he kidding.
No Time To Dial (1813 words) by Anonymous
Fandom: Knives Out (Movies)
Relationships: Benoit Blanc/Phillip (Knives Out)
Additional Tags: Wake Up Dead Man - Freeform, Phone Conversations, They're In Love Your Honor, Spies & Secret Agents, flirting with your husband, Outrageously, Faux Jealously (Mostly Faux), Father Jud Is Adorable And Everyone Knows It, Offscreen Violence and Derring-Do
Summary: Benoit Blanc catches his long-suffering husband up on the murder mystery with the adorable twinky priest.
The Last of the Gentleman Sleuths (3465 words) by Anonymous
Fandom: Knives Out (Movies)
Characters: Benoit Blanc (Knives Out), Phillip (Knives Out)
Summary: A case is closed.
ma knew best (1330 words) by Anonymous
Fandom: Sinners (2025)
Relationships: Bo Chow/Grace Chow, Annie/Elijah "Smoke" Moore, Mary/Elias "Stack" Moore, Annie & Grace Chow
Additional Tags: Origin Story, Past/Present/Future, period/canon appropriate racism (segregation), school days, Mary is mentioned but does not appear, canonical MCD acknowledged
Summary: Everything Lisa Chow knows about her parents and their friends, she learned from her mother.
the (un)magnificent lives of adults (3329 words) by Anonymous
Fandom: Sense8 (TV)
Relationships: Wolfgang Bogdanow/Kala Dandekar/Rajan Rasal
Additional Tags: Post-Canon
Summary: Kala and her cluster wrestle with what their new normal means.
Beplagued
Dec. 27th, 2025 08:10 pmBetween being busy and getting sick, it looks like my annual Cards & Tea post may have be postponed to the New Year - I definitely don't want to be handling comestibles, or even cards, in the state I'm in now.
I've been too busy to crack the pages on either my newest purchases, Stars of Chaos volume 2 and the first book of Married Thrice to a Salted Fish, but I'm still looking forward to them. I did finally finish watching Mob Psycho 100's 3rd season last week, and greatly enjoyed it! Yesterday, when I wasn't feeling quite as awful, I started a Tiger & Bunny rewatch, and got 7 episodes in; no progress on that today, but maybe tomorrow.
If you participated in Yuletide, what gift(s) did you get? If you're just reading, has anything caught your eye? Any new fandoms you're eyeing for 2026, or rereads/rewatches you're planning?
a handful of Yuletide recs
Dec. 27th, 2025 06:06 pmMy awesome gift (5-minute fandom: British Airways "May We Haveth One's Attention" Safety Video):
A British Original: Discovering Haddersford House and Its Residents (2248 words, gen)
Summary: A magazine article from the world where characters in costume drama occasionally come to life of their own--and stick around after the cameras stop rolling and the crews have gone home.
I really had no idea what to expect from this request (just that I had to have something about this marvelous video!) and I love how it's played with an absolutely straight face. Also, there's a nod to Planet Vancouver, hee!
Speaking of the ridiculous played straight, this is understandable (and hilarious) with only osmosis knowledge of The Godfather:
An Offer You Can’t Refuse (Unless You’re Lactose Intolerant) (1008 words, Godfather movies, gen)
Summary: On the day of his daughter’s guinea pig’s wedding, Don Vito Corleone received a request he could not immediately refuse.
Absolutely the best Godfather fic ever.
The rest of my recs really do require canon knowledge, but I know many of you know these canons:
Memories Are Made of This (4002 words, Northern Exposure, Ed Chigliak-centered ensemble gen)
Summary: “So this is Cicely,” Ed said, gazing wide-eyed up and down Main Street. “Where’s the rest of it?”
This is wonderful - like an episode of the show, warm and funny and a little bit off-kilter.
Hoar and Hound (2236 words, Cadfael Chronicles, Brother Cadfael-centered gen)
Summary: On a frigidly cold December night, Cadfael follows a trail through the abbey grounds.
A lovely, thoughtful portrait of the abbey and of Cadfael. The way he quietly assesses the needs of the people (and creatures) around him is perfectly in tune with canon.
Dis Manibus (1364 words, Frontier Wolf, Alexios/Cunorix, Alexios/Hilarion, G)
Summary: Alexios goes out to make an offering to the shades of the dead, but he does not go alone.
This is lovely and tender and measured, and has something of Sutcliff in the descriptions. For me Alexios/Hilarion only works if it honors the close friendship between Alexios and Cunorix, before things went bad - and this is perfect.
We Greet the Peoples of the Tower (1717 words but heavily illustrated; Chants of Sennaar, gen)
Summary: There are some oddly regular scratch marks on a wall in the Alchemists' level...
Basically this is a fangame (though the game part is optional; the first set of chapters are illustrations with glyphs as in the game, and the second half holds the translations), a whole new level in which the Monster goes seeking the other peoples to assert he is a human and their brother. It's a moving story that fits with the game themes, and it's just very cool!
Actually, if you've played Chants of Sennaar, I recommend all the Yuletide works for the game as the fandom has clearly brought its A-game, they're all great. (The one above is just extraordinarily so!) And there are two Madness works I haven't even looked at yet!
Various Links 12/22-12/27
Dec. 27th, 2025 06:24 pm~ North American Indigenous Santa Dance - video, performer is known as "Powwow Santa"
~ Cat figuring how to get in out of a vase - video
~ Frame-slowed, colorized Victorian snowball fight - video
~ The LGBT bookstore saves a man - text, untranscribed, mention of self harm and suicidal ideation (old post, but I reblog when I see it to remember what FAMILY is)
~ Knitted wedding dress - photos and text
~ Trumpeteer gets an unexpected accompaniment - video, sound needed
~ Stonehenge Solstice Cat art - picture
but now that's how i'm getting paid
Dec. 27th, 2025 05:55 pmChristmas morning, my niece and her husband came over so Baby Miss L could unwrap the first set of presents - she still gets bored with it and wants to play with whatever she's opened instead of opening the next gift, so it's a process - and she LOVED the 30 second dance party button, as I knew she would. I am SO HAPPY I saw it somewhere (Wirecutter, maybe?) and ordered it, and that it arrived in time for me to see her play with it. (The adults got a kick out of it too, but it was hilarious watching her run up and press it each time it ended.) She liked the dinosaur cape and the books (especially "The Little Book of Cheese," which is in the same series as "The Little Book of Pasta," which I got for her last year and which she LOVES - apparently she will just bust out with "FARFALLE!" at any given moment), but did not care about the wings at all. Also when Alyssa told her I would be there, she said, "books!" so she knows I am the books and clothes aunt. *g*
The while elephant swap was pretty hilarious too, and my niece Nicki ended up with the cat-shaped measuring cups and spoons that were my contribution. I got a waterproof bluetooth speaker I'm going to have to set up in the bathroom to have tunes in the shower.
The funfetti cupcakes were a big hit. (I made sure to put cream cheese frosting on the ones for my sister; she tried one with the American buttercream and made the same face I made when I tasted it - it's disgustingly sweet.) There's picture of this year's selection here.
As for gifts, I received a handful of gift cards, a KRYPTO squishmallow from Baby Miss L, a pair of earrings made from chips of vintage pyrex, a stand mixer tree ornament, a copy of Dorrie's Anytime Cakes, some candles, and a pair of super warm and fuzzy grippy socks. I also bought myself a new winter coat, a new 9 x 13" pyrex baking dish, a new vibrator, some new bras, and a new pair of black ankle boots, so I'm doing all right in the gift department. *g*
Yesterday, I got home early and vegged out for most of the day. And then it snowed, just like they said it would!
Today, I made a new batch of dough and tomorrow I'll finish baking off the fig cookies for this year. I also want to try those orange cranberry rolls now that I have room in the fridge to let them rise overnight. I still have so many eggs left over, though, so I see at least one frittata in my future, plus at least one batch of Nadiya's egg wraps, which are delicious and I recommend them highly!
Now I should look into having dinner and maybe watching the Rangers game.
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